Secure attachment: how father-child play can help

   



   
   

   

   

 

 

Researchers have found that fathers who stimulate their 9-month-olds during play are more likely to enjoy secure attachment 3 to 9 months later.

Secure attachment between fathers and their toddlers is predicted by how fathers play with them. Researchers have found that fathers who stimulate their ninemontholds during play are more likely to enjoy secure attachment three to nine months later. This happens, however, only if the father is not too intrusive during the playingfor exampleby frequently limiting the child’s activities with physical or verbal commands, or by forcing the child to play with something that he/she does not like.

‘Stimulation was measured by video. Fathers and babies were recorded together, and researchers observed how often the father did things like exercising the baby’s arms and legs, lifting the baby up to fly, waving a toy in front of the baby or tickling the baby with a toy.

The research adds to our understanding of father-child play in early child development.

In experiments looking at what predicts secure attachment, mothers and fathers show different patternsIt has been found that when a father plays sensitively with his two-year-old (e.g., plays cooperatively with the child to support more mature play and takes the child’s point of view), then later, during adolescence, the child forms more positive understandings of close relationships. This link with sensitivity specifically during play has not been seen in research with mothers. Insteadmothers showing sensitivity during it predicts more secure attachment later, more so than for fathers who care sensitively. (It should be noted that all of this research looks at averages – there are variations among both mothers and fathers.)

Research also tell us that fathers, on average, interact with their infants more playfully, more vigorously and more physically than mothers do. Yet just like mothers, fathers form secure attachments with their doIt seems that children benefit from both having a safe haven and being able to explore. On average, mothers provide more of the former and fathers more of the latter.

In apparent contradiction to earlier research, in thexperiment reported here, how sensitively fathers played with their children did not predict any more or less secure attachment later (in contrast to how intrusively the father played). The researchers suggest that this may be because showing sensitivity is important when the child is distressed and, in this experiment, involving only five minutes of father-child play, the children were not distressed.

This research was conducted in the USA and involved a small sample of 58 fathers with their infants and was quite narrow demographically. All the fathers were from dualearner couples, 88% were married86% were white and the median income was $80,000. 

Header photo: Tom Carmony. Creative Commons.

References

 Olsavsky AL, Berrigan MN, Schoppe-Sullivan SJ, Brown GL & Kamp Dush CM (2019), Paternal stimulation and father-infant attachment, Attachment & Human Development

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